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Updated: Jul 23, 2023

Many individuals struggle with effectively navigating their emotions. It is a fundamental human characteristic that often goes misunderstood and mishandled. Rather than perceiving emotions as burdensome or overwhelming, we have the opportunity to embrace them as sources of potentiality and growth.

In this article, we will explore the realm of emotions and delve into three key principles of Gestalt therapy that can empower you to live and manage your emotions in a healthy manner. Additionally, practical suggestions will be provided to assist you in this transformative process. Understanding the Essence of Emotions.

Etymologically, the term "emotion" signifies an impulse that propels us into action. E-MOTION, where "E" represents energy and "MOTION" denotes movement. Every emotion we experience originates from within ourselves. We create them through our conscious and unconscious thoughts, and each emotion conveys a message meant to be heard.

Embracing the Spectrum of Emotions

Emotions are not inherently positive or negative; such labels are subjective judgments imposed by the mind. They are simply energies that we consciously or unconsciously generate, each carrying its own vibration. Some emotions have a denser quality, such as hate, shame, or fear, while others resonate at a higher, subtler frequency, such as joy, gratitude, or peace. These emotions arise within us to deliver messages and guide us through personal transformation.

The Omnipresence of Emotional Impact

Without realizing it, we experience emotions constantly throughout our lives. Every moment, situation, thought, sight, sound, touch, and scent has an emotional impact on us. It is within each situation that we encounter a multitude of emotions, sometimes even conflicting ones.

By acknowledging and listening to these emotions, we gain valuable insight into our needs in any given moment. For example, if your partner informs you that they cannot join you on a planned vacation due to work commitments, you may feel a sense of sadness, highlighting the importance of addressing your emotions and considering alternative options like discussing your feelings with your partner, rescheduling the trip, going on the trip with a friend, or embarking on the journey alone.

Gestalt Therapy: Nurturing Emotional Connection

Gestalt therapy offers invaluable guidance in establishing a healthy relationship with our emotions. By connecting with our emotions, we gain access to our underlying needs, enabling us to make informed decisions regarding our well-being. Three fundamental aspects contribute to effective emotional management:

  1. Recognize: To comprehend and identify an emotion, begin by tuning into your body. Observe where you physically feel the emotion (e.g., stomach, chest, throat) and take note of the accompanying physical sensations (e.g., tingling, burning, pressure). This practice aids in recognizing emotions as they arise.

  2. Embrace: Once an emotion is recognized, give yourself permission to fully experience and embrace it. Avoid judging or rejecting the emotion. Instead, accept it without attempting to alter it. Observe its physical sensations objectively—whether it shifts or remains constant, intensifies or diminishes. Grant the emotion space to manifest freely while maintaining a steady breath.

  3. Manage: After acknowledging and accepting an emotion, you can discern your needs and take action accordingly, effectively completing the emotional cycle. For instance, if you feel anger due to being denied a requested salary increase, allow yourself to experience the sensation of anger without amplifying it or suppressing it. By holding space for the emotion, you may recognize dissatisfaction with your current job situation, empowering you to make decisions such as renegotiating with your boss, setting boundaries on overtime work, or exploring new career opportunities. By heeding the message conveyed by the emotion, you gain clarity on your needs and engage in conscious action.

Completing the Emotional Cycle

By recognizing, embracing, and managing emotions, we bring closure to emotional processes, creating space for new experiences to unfold. We exist in a perpetual state of emotional transition, and it is up to us to either embrace or hinder this process, with the understanding that our choices shape our lives.

Practical Suggestions for Emotional Mastery

  1. Maintain a journal: Dedicate a journal to record your emotional experiences. Document the events, the emotions you feel, the physical sensations associated with them, the insights gained, and how you choose to manage the situations.

  2. Creative expression: Explore creative outlets, such as dance, singing, painting, or writing, to channel and express your emotions. Emotions are energy that requires flow and circulation, and creative expression provides a powerful avenue for their release.

  3. Cultivate mindfulness: Engage in meditation or mindfulness practices that allow you to consciously observe your thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations without judgment, attachment, or rejection. These practices enhance concentration, inner calmness, self-awareness, and compassionate presence, providing effective tools for emotional regulation.

  4. Prioritize physical exercise: Incorporate regular physical exercise into your routine to release pent-up emotions, alleviate stress, and elevate your overall mood. Exercise supports the release of neurochemicals associated with improved well-being, such as endorphins and serotonin, while promoting self-esteem.

  5. Monitor your thoughts: Pay close attention to the thoughts that influence your emotional state. Identify thoughts that bring about positive feelings and those that generate negative emotions. Choose to nurture thoughts that uplift and empower you, recognizing their impact on your emotional well-being.

  6. Practice gratitude: Begin or end each day by expressing gratitude for various aspects of your life. Reflect on what you appreciate, focusing on the positive emotions that arise. Gratitude, a highly vibrational emotion, enhances well-being when integrated into daily life.

  7. Nurture your body: Maintain a balanced and healthy diet, particularly emphasizing the consumption of vegetables. Excessive sugar intake can contribute to emotional fluctuations, while a well-rounded diet fosters stability and inner tranquility.

  8. Seek professional support: Consider participating in experiential training or consulting a therapy professional who can guide and support you throughout your journey of emotional mastery, ensuring your comfort and confidence in the process. These resources offer ongoing assistance as you integrate emotional management into your life.

With heartfelt wishes for your personal growth and fulfillment, may this information serve as a valuable tool on your path.

By Marta Masanés and revised by Ritshi Zenati.

Holistika Center run transformative and Spiritual retreats. We base our work on expanded states of consciousness and Sacred plants.

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