In this third part of our exploration into Family Constellations, we delve into the profound influence family dynamics have on work, money, and abundance. Many of the financial and career-related challenges we face are rooted in unconscious loyalties, hidden family patterns, or unresolved conflicts within the family system. Through the lens of Family Constellations, we can uncover the unseen forces that may be blocking us from achieving financial success, professional fulfillment, or a sense of abundance.
Here are three practical cases that demonstrate how healing occurs in the realms of work, money, and abundance:
Case 1: Blocked Career Advancement
The Problem:Jane was a talented professional, but despite her skills and dedication, she consistently found herself overlooked for promotions. No matter how hard she worked, others seemed to advance while she remained stuck in the same position. This pattern repeated itself in several jobs, leaving her feeling frustrated and inadequate.
The Constellation:During her Family Constellation session, it was revealed that Jane’s father had experienced a significant professional failure. He had once owned a thriving business but lost it due to circumstances beyond his control. The loss had deeply affected the family, and Jane unconsciously carried the burden of her father’s failure. Through the constellation, she discovered that by not advancing in her own career, she was remaining loyal to her father’s experience of failure, as if succeeding would betray him.
The Healing:Through the constellation process, Jane was able to symbolically return the burden of failure to her father with love and respect. She acknowledged his experience without taking it on as her own. This created space for her to pursue success on her terms. After the session, Jane began to feel more confident in her abilities, and within months, she received a promotion that had previously seemed out of reach.
Case 2: Money Struggles and Lack of Abundance
The Problem:Mark was a successful entrepreneur, but despite his hard work and many clients, he always seemed to struggle financially. He lived in a constant state of scarcity, unable to accumulate wealth or feel financially secure. The issue wasn’t a lack of business but a lack of money flowing freely into his life.
The Constellation:Mark’s Family Constellation revealed that his grandfather had been disowned by the family after a financial dispute. This event had created a break in the family’s flow of abundance, as the family system unconsciously associated money with betrayal and loss. Mark was unknowingly carrying this legacy, sabotaging his own financial success to remain loyal to the family’s narrative around money.
The Healing:In the constellation, Mark was able to acknowledge the rupture caused by the financial dispute and offer respect to the family members involved. By recognizing the ancestral pattern and releasing his unconscious loyalty to it, Mark opened himself to a new relationship with money. In the months following the constellation, Mark’s business began to flourish, and he found himself not only making more money but also managing it better, with a newfound sense of abundance and security.
Case 3: Bad Luck in Business
The Problem:Sophie had started several businesses over the years, but each one seemed to fail despite her best efforts. Whether due to unfortunate circumstances or unforeseen obstacles, she experienced repeated setbacks that she described as “bad luck.” She was on the verge of giving up on entrepreneurship altogether.
The Constellation:In her Family Constellation, it emerged that Sophie’s great-grandfather had been involved in a fraudulent business deal that hurt many people. Although Sophie knew nothing of this, the unresolved guilt from this event had permeated the family system. Sophie was unconsciously carrying this guilt, and as a result, her businesses were failing as a form of penance for her ancestor’s actions.
The Healing:Through the constellation, Sophie acknowledged the harm caused by her great-grandfather and expressed compassion for those affected. By releasing the guilt that was not hers to carry, Sophie allowed herself to pursue business success without the weight of her family’s past. After the constellation, she launched a new business that quickly gained traction and success, free from the “bad luck” that had plagued her previous ventures.
Conclusion: A New Relationship with Work and Abundance
Family Constellations offer a profound way to address deep-seated issues related to work, money, and abundance. Many of the struggles we face in these areas are not purely personal but tied to unresolved dynamics within our family system. By bringing these hidden patterns to light, Family Constellations provide a path to healing and transformation, allowing individuals to step into their full potential.
Through the process of Family Constellations, clients can shift from scarcity to abundance, from stagnation to progress, and from “bad luck” to empowered success. Whether dealing with career blockages, financial struggles, or recurring failures, this therapeutic method uncovers the deeper forces at play and offers a way to break free from old patterns.
By embracing the insights and healing that Family Constellations provide, we can cultivate a healthier, more prosperous relationship with work and money, opening the door to lasting abundance.
By Ritshi Zenati, Coach at Holistika Center
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